Better late then never!


Better late then never! I finally finished our Fourth of July wreath! I might still add a bow to it, or perhaps some lettering, but I think it looks beautiful with our Fourth of July doormat that I snagged on sale at Joann’s last week for only $5! I like to decorate our home for all holidays and seasons and July’s theme is for Fourth of July. Once August starts, I’ll switch back to our summer decor. I’ll have to take some pictures of what I did with the interior and exterior decorating for this month. #interiordesign #exteriordesign #porchdecor #fourthofjuly #decor #diy #wreathmaking

Weekend Activities for Families


This article is being published in conjunction with the Howard County Dads Group, a non-profit dedicated to improving father involvement. You can find their website here.

Making memories as a couple and as a family is one of the most important things to me. My fiancé works 30 hours a week along with taking 12 credits each semester and works 50 hours when he’s off during the summers and on breaks. I work in the mornings and bring our 2-year-old daughter with me, and then I am busy the rest of the day taking care of her, errands, and chores around the house. Since Sean comes home, does homework, and then studies until it’s time for bed, we don’t get a lot of family time until the weekends, and even that is stretched for time. When we do have time, we try to make the most of it and go to places since our little one loves to explore and get out of the house. Here are some of our tried and true activities that are available on the weekend, and are interesting for both parents and kids alike.

The Farmers Market The Catonsville Farmers Market is held every Sunday until 12:30 pm at 730 Frederick Road in Catonsville, MD. There are other farmers markets available over the weekend, but for the sake of moving forward, I’m just going to list this one. The farmers market is a great place to introduce your little one to new flavors, colors, shapes, smells, and different ways of life. When we go, I like to show our daughter different foods and ask her what color they are, tell her about the food, and tell her about dishes it would be used in. We count produce and talk about how the food is made or where it’s grown. We smell flowers, produce, and everything else that’s around us. We play I Spy, counting games, and it’s a good place for her to meet new people and walk around in a relatively safe area, especially since they are usually blocked off from cars driving around, and they aren’t super crowded. A lot of farmers market stands will let you sample the foods, and that is a good way to help expose children to different tastes and textures. There is a certain joy and excitement that comes with tasting something via a sample from a store, versus just being handed a plate of a new food at home. This also opens up an opportunity to practice those manners that toddlers (and everyone else) need so desperately.

The Dinosaur Park Embrace your inner Ross, and be a paleontologist for the day! The Dinosaur Park is located at 13100 Mid-Atlantic Boulevard in Laurel, MD. It’s on the Prince George’s side of Laurel, but it’s located right off of Route 1, so it’s an easy drive, and only took us about 18 minutes to get there. The site is tucked in the back of a business park, so don’t get discouraged as you’re trying to find it. It’s there. Their Interpretive Program is free and open to the public on the first and third Saturday of every month, and you get to go onto the dig site and can look for fossils and other artifacts from the early Cretaceous period, which was about 115 million years ago. There is also a little dinosaur themed playground in front of the dig site that is open at all times. This is a fun experience for all ages, and is a good lesson in science, history, and listening skills.

Hyper Kidz Located at 9309 Snowden River Parkway in Columbia, MD, this ocean themed indoor playground is a great place to take your kiddos when its just too darn hot or rainy to go outside, but your kids are just so wired up that they need to get out of the house and get that energy out. Hyper Kidz is nice since they are pretty inexpensive, and up to two parents/caregivers are free, which means you aren’t paying for yourself. I’m all about scoring a good deal, aka, cheap or free, and I think having to pay for parents/caregivers at a place for children, especially when you still have to look after them, is a rip off. It’s another thing if I can drop my tot off, or be able to veg out while she has fun, but I personally don’t like paying to be on duty. The only downside to Hyper Kidz, is that some of the kids there are really hyper and will knock you or your kid over. However, as most of you reading are dads, you’re probably not 5’2 and 125 pounds, and can withstand big kids. My daughter is strong for her age, but she’s also only in the 10th percentile for height, making her excellent knockdown material as well. Hyper Kidz is also nice in that you pay for the day. So if you take your child in the morning for play, and go home for naptime, or out for lunch, you can bring them back with no additional fee when they recharge later in the day. There are multiple floors to this fun, and they have different sections for different heights and ages (although, in reality, they aren’t strict about that). There are multiple things that parents aren’t allowed to go on, and everyone will need socks. They take orders for lunch, and have a café where you can purchase food and drinks. There are several good photo spots there, including a Captain Jack Sparrow! They have a light up dance floor, slides, ball pit, floors of fun, trampolines, tunnels, wrecking balls to swing on to live out your Miley Cyrus dreams, and a coconut tree your kids can ride on, among many other fun things you can find there.

I hope you enjoyed my first Howard County Dads article, and I’m excited to write the next one for you guys! Enjoy!

The Incredibles 2


The Incredibles 2 picks up with The Parr Family right where we left with them at the end of The Incredibles. The storyline was consistent with the first, and the characters stayed true to the original. I liked the plot, but the stakes weren’t as high as the first. The score felt a little off at times. I felt it had too much percussion and felt a little spy-ish. The scoring for the original felt perfect, and fit the movie and the setting just right. This movie made me laugh, pulled at my heartstrings, and even scared me a little. In a scene when Elastigirl goes to confront the villain Screenslaver, I was torn between covering my eyes and watching the movie. This time around, I connected with the Incredibles in a different way. When the original movie came out, it fit my family perfectly. We were a family of five, with kids the same age, and were going through some of the same family struggles at the time, so we related to The Parrs heavily. Now, 14 years later, I’m a mother to a just turned 1 year old, and I related with the characters in a different way. My daughter is definitely a Jack Jack, and I related to Bob’s struggle as the homemaker. I used to “be” Violet, and now I look at her story with nostalgia, knowing that now I “am” Helen. The original was definitely better, but this is a must see.

Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

One Bowl Easy Guacamole


As a nursing mom, I’m always hungry. So even though dinner was about an hour from being done, I needed something healthy, quick, and light to snack on since I accidentally skipped lunch. Thankfully, my avocados were ripe, and I found some pita crackers in the pantry. I didn’t want to just put mashed avocado on my pita since I wanted something a little more flavorful, but I also didn’t want to create something that would take a lot of time or clean up. Hence, my one bowl guacamole:

1 avocado, ripe, pitted, and halved

1/2 tsp garlic powder

A dash of salt

A dash of pepper

A smidge of cilantro paste

5 drops of lime juice

I started by scooping the avocado into the bowl, then I put the rest of my ingredients in there too. I mixed it all together with a fork, then used Toll House Sea Salt Pita Crackers to scoop it out and eat it with!

My partner happened to get home from work right as I was sitting down to eat it, so we finished off the bowl together. It was so easy to make, and we both really liked it.

I hope your family enjoys it as much as mine did.

Hugs,

Ally

Local Activities for Babies (and Parents)


A fellow new Mom reached out to me to see if I had found any activities around that she could do with her newborn. I thought I’d share my response with you all. I’ve kept out her name for privacy purposes. The specific suggestions are local to Howard County in Maryland, but there is probably the same thing or something similar close to you. I hope this gives you all some ideas of what to do with your little one!

Hi ******,

Thank you for reaching out to me. Congratulations on your bundle of joy. Is he your first?

I found one free baby group had met at Whole Foods weekly through a Facebook group, but I haven’t seen any events come through for it in a long time. I was actually thinking of maybe starting my own. I’ve found motherhood to be sort of isolating as well. I’m one of the first of my friends to settle down and have a child, so that makes it difficult as well.

As for classes, the library system is fantastic. They have so many different things set up for the little ones to do, and there’s so many locations, so it’s easy to pick and choose.

This summer we went to the park a lot, or took walks, but now that it’s so cold, I’ve definitely been struggling with finding things for my daughter and I to do. I’m a stay at home mom, at least for now, and our outings lately have consisted of errands and the gym. We go to the Dancel Y, so they have a child care that I take her to while I work out. I definitely recommend it, if that’s your sort of thing. I’ve heard of a place called Storyville that’s in Woodlawn. It’s a baby playground that has different areas for different stages from 0 to preschool age. And it’s free. I haven’t been yet, but I’m hoping to go soon.

My daughter really enjoys running errands with me, so that’s a way for us to get out too.

The Yoga Center of Columbia (right over by Howard HS) has a couple free infant classes this week, if you want to try it out.

There’s an app called Meetup that has several different local parent groups. There’s PATH parents at home (they are membership based, and also have a Facebook page) and HoCo POLO howard county parents of little ones, (free, and that’s the one that had the Whole Foods meet up, also has a Facebook page) and a couple more. I joined HoCo POLO. If you’re religious, there might be a Mom group through your place of worship. I go to OLPH and they have a Catholic Moms Group that has events every once and a while.

Also, I highly recommend getting the Peanut app. It’s like Tinder, but for moms. You set up a profile, and based on your location, you can swipe up or down on a local Mom. It’s based off of the bio you write, many kids you have, how old, what you do (or did), hometown, languages you speak, parenting style, etc. It’s great.

I hope this helps. And who knows, maybe we’ll end up meeting up one day! Let me know if there’s anything you find.

Apricot Chicken


What’s for dinner? It’s a phrase that is echoed across homes every day around 5 or 6 every evening. Tonight’s answer: Apricot Chicken. I was originally going to make the recipe that I got off Half Baked Harvest that I’ve made before (total hit!!), but as I began to make it I realized I didn’t have a bottle of Russian dressing, nor the ingredients to make Russian dressing from scratch. I had already poured the apricot preserves over the boneless, skinless, chicken breast and I needed a new idea. As I scoured the internet for ideas, I found an alternative recipe that sounded promising and I adjusted it to make it my own.

My recipe follows;

4 boneless, skinless chicken thighs

1/4 tsp coconut aminos (or soy sauce)

1/2 cup brown sugar

1 jar apricot preserves

1/4 cup ketchup

1 clove garlic

Preheat oven to 350*F.

Place chicken breast in a 9×13 Pyrex pan.

Pour coconut aminos, apricot preserves, garlic, and ketchup in a bowl and mix. When thoroughly mixed, pour over chicken. Evenly sprinkle brown sugar on top. Bake for 45 minutes.

Makes 4 servings.

I served it with white rice and sweet potatoes and spooned the extra sauce overtop the rice.

So good. So sweet. So easy. It’s like a dinner dessert. I’m definitely making it again.

Let me know if you try it and how it is!!

Fourth Trimester, done


Maggie turned 3 months old yesterday and it’s breaking my heart. I’ve been prepping all week by getting her 3-6 month clothing ready and washed. She’s been dealing with a bout of pesky cradle cap, but per my mom’s suggestion, I slathered some coconut oil on her head yesterday around noon and when I changed her diaper this morning after she woke up around 6:30, we swung by her toiletries and I took the fine tooth baby comb that the hospital gave us, and combed it right out! It definitely helped.

I tried Starbucks’ Unicorn Frappuccino


If you haven’t heard already, Starbucks released a new, limited time, blended crème Frap inspired by the world’s favorite mythological creature – unicorns. It’s a magical twist on Starbucks’ already wildly popular concept – The Frappuccino.

If you’re lucky enough to have snagged one of these drinks before they were sold out, you know that the drink is a caffeine-free, pink and blue swirled wonderland that changes from sugary sweet and becomes this sour candied gem. It’s absolutely beautiful and it’ll be hitting up your Insta feed so try it out so you can be on trend too.

Exquisite Styles for Special Occasions


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Fall in Love with Layers


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